If you are over 30 you can most likely close your eyes and hear Dean Martin singing –

You're nobody 'til somebody loves you. You’re nobody 'til somebody cares. You may be king, you may possess the world and it's gold. But gold won't bring you happiness when you're growing old. The world still is the same, you never change it, As sure as the stars shine above; You're nobody 'til somebody loves you, so find yourself somebody to love.

The world still is the same, you never change it, As sure as the stars shine above; You're nobody 'til somebody loves you, So find yourself somebody, find yourself somebody, Find yourself somebody to love.

A psychologist must have written this song. If you are interested who actually did write it put the name Larry Stock in Google.

Human beings need to be loved. It’s why we keep dogs. They love us with unconditional love. God made us in His image. Man was not made to live alone. God is a lover. He cares. He blesses. He wants us to prosper. That’s the reason He gave us the Ten Commandments. He wants us to stop doing things that will make us unlovable to ourselves and others. In Ephesians 3 Paul tells us God’s love is beyond understanding. It might be joyous to try and measure its width and depth but we will never totally get it.

I really like the last two lines of the song. Find yourself somebody to love. Fill your life with friendship and rejoice in making God happy because He sees you happy. Parents love it when their children are doing well. God is the ultimate parent.